Hello, Neighbors!
I’m coming to you fresh from watching the first episode of Sakamoto Days, and wow—I’m impressed! For those unfamiliar, Sakamoto Days is a slice-of-life action anime that follows Mr. Sakamoto, a retired hitman who now runs a convenience store with his wife and child. On paper, that premise alone is enough to intrigue anyone, but what truly sets this series apart is its refreshing take on masculinity and character depth.
The first episode, titled The Legendary Hitman, wastes no time throwing us into the action. We’re introduced to Sakamoto—glasses-wearing, white-haired, and radiating an almost dangerous charm—as he single-handedly dismantles an entire room of hitmen. Yes, you read that right. This man, when I tell you this man, is not only beautiful but absolutely feral. He spares no expense when it comes to the kills, even going as far as to hand a man with a cord. As a hitman Sakamoto is not only breathtakingly calm and composed, but also creative in the most calculated way. Sakamoto’s combat style is innovative and creative, making him a force to be reckoned with. Whether he’s cutting cigarettes with a boxcutter or disarming foes with seemingly mundane objects, he brings an artistry to his violence that leaves viewers both awed and horrified.
However, the brilliance of Sakamoto Days lies in its tonal control. The animation team skillfully balances the brutality of Sakamoto’s actions with a level of restraint that keeps the show from veering into gratuitous gore. It’s a fine line, but they walk it well, allowing the narrative to focus on Sakamoto’s humanity rather than his body count.
At its core, Sakamoto Days is a story about a man trying to protect his family while navigating a dangerous past. Sakamoto himself is a man of few words, but his actions speak volumes. Despite his fearsome reputation, he has become a pillar of his community. Neighbors frequently call on him for everything from trimming trees to babysitting and playing with children.
This duality—being both a retired assassin and a caring family man—sets Sakamoto apart from the stereotypical hyper-masculine leads we often see in action-oriented anime. Too many shounen protagonists fall into the trap of toxic masculinity, where they’re either emotionally detached, overly aggressive, or misogynistic to the point of alienating viewers. By contrast, Sakamoto embodies a healthier form of masculinity—one that blends strength and vulnerability, protection and compassion.
The show’s emphasis on Sakamoto’s promise to his wife not to kill is another standout feature. In his confrontation with Shin, a former colleague sent to assassinate him, Sakamoto’s restraint takes center stage. Instead of using lethal force, Sakamoto fights with non-lethal items found in his convenience store, demonstrating his commitment to his family’s values even under dire circumstances.
Later, when Shin is captured and offers to die in Sakamoto’s place, Sakamoto comes to his rescue in spectacular fashion. Revealing an arsenal of hidden weapons stashed around the convenience store, Sakamoto still chooses non-lethal tools—a pair of chopsticks and a stun gun—to save the day. This decision not only provides comedic relief but also reinforces his unwavering dedication to his promise, even when it complicates his life.
What truly elevates Sakamoto’s character is his mentorship of Shin. After rescuing him, Sakamoto invites Shin to leave behind his life of crime and join him at the convenience store. This act of guidance and inclusion is a perfect example of healthy masculinity in action. Instead of rejecting or condemning Shin, Sakamoto offers him a chance to grow, heal, and find a better path—something rarely explored in the action genre.
By modeling compassion, restraint, and an unwavering commitment to his family, Sakamoto challenges traditional notions of masculinity. He’s not just a protector but also a nurturer and a guide, showcasing that strength doesn’t have to come at the expense of empathy.
Sakamoto Days is proving to be more than just an action-packed anime; it’s a masterclass in progressive storytelling. Its nuanced approach to masculinity sets it apart, offering viewers a protagonist who is as relatable as he is aspirational. Sakamoto is a reminder that true strength lies in keeping your promises, protecting what you love, and helping others become their best selves.
If you haven’t watched Sakamoto Days yet, I highly recommend diving in. Not only will it keep you on the edge of your seat, but it will also leave you reflecting on the kind of man—and human—you aspire to be.
What are your thoughts on healthy masculinity in anime? Let me know in the comments, and let’s continue the conversation!
Hey hue! I haven't seen Sakamoto days but it does remind me of "The Way of the Househusband". It's a really similar story, ex-mafia guy retires and devotes his entire self and mafia-skills to being the best househusband and neighbor. Some of his re-curring gags are carrying mysterious white substances in little drug bags, and then revealing it's flour, salt, a rare kind of spice he's been vying for. It's really cute and does a similar thing of contrasting the violence of his past with the peace he's created for himself and his beloved wife.
I really love seeing this happen, and that there's another rendition of this character/story. Anime has historically (imo) demonstrated and encouraged toxic masculinity in a way that made it hard for weeaboos to be taken seriously as artists or humans. I remember that being the case when I was a kid, and watching it shift pretty dramatically within my lifetime to anime being a popular genre that now intentionally encourages healthy masculinity. It's really cool and exciting!